going crazy

Thursday, April 14, 2005

When everything goes wrong

What do you do if everything around you is going wrong but nothing with you is wrong? If everyone is turning to you for anwsers who do you turn to,to help you? I really couldn't tell anyone the right thing for these questions but all I know is I am glad that my friends are able to trust me enough to tell me things. problems are problems and I noticed sometimes you just need to tell someone about it to feel better. I love listening to all of my friends. Each and everyone of you are so awesome and I love to hear what you have to say. I don't care if it doesn't seem important because if it means something to you then no matter what it is important. One person isn't able to fix everything but they can try to fix little things at a time. Even if eveyone turns to you and you have no one to turn to, feel blessed that people trust you enough to go to you. I know I do!!!

Does everything happen for a reason or is it just by chance that things happen?...

9 Comments:

  • At 8:41 PM, Blogger kikkoBEAM said…

    Question: Does everything happen for a reason or is it just by chance that things happen?...

    Answer: tough. way to ask the one question in life that no one really knows the answer too. sometimes i think its a little bit of both. like, there are paths that we can choose, and depending on which one we choose there is something that will end up happening because of the choice that we made. we do have free agency of course. but then there are those times when you really see how things worked out, or how something happened because something small that you did.... or something big was changed just from one little effort that you made and you re-think that whole "little bit of both" concept.

    you are really amazing to have so many people that turn to you for advice or for someone to talk to, and i really am proud of you for that.... but im sure that just as so many people trust you, they would be just as willing to have you come to them with your problems and issues.
    in the least i know that im always here for you.... even though im like 7 bajillion miles away... im just an email away...... :)

    I MISS YOU SO MUCH.... i hate it, everything is so werid and strange and different right now and i wish so bad that i could get the chance to talk to you about it... but i cant because you are not really there and theres no way im posting all my personal problems on the world wide web.

    but email me some time.. I MISS YOU LIKE THE SUN MISSES THE FLOWER
    IN THE DEAD OF WINTER
    (which means alot)
    hahaha
    come visit me soon, and i will giv eyou a hug and maybe a kiss if you are lucky
    lol
    lov eyou

     
  • At 7:00 PM, Blogger shamae said…

    Could it be that everything goes around by chance? Or only one way that it was always meant to be? You kill me, you always know the perfect thing to say. I know what I should do but I just can't walk away.

    BWAH! That is a song, I'm not just talking like that. ...that would be...odd. Hey Button, you should know you can definatly talk to me about anything even though I'M like 3 1/2 bajillion miles away... I mean, we had a bonding sleep over...we pulled out our darkest, deepest secrets. (which by the way needs to be updated on my part..heh..heh...bah) I LOVE YOU... like...the

    ...okay, I can't beat Sara's, but it's A LOT!

     
  • At 9:51 PM, Blogger The Tricky Taco said…

    Hey Mette,
    I don't know you that well but from what I hear you are a great person. I too have been one of those people who have been asked or has asked those questions that no one really knows the answers too. I know that it does help to just talk to someone when you are confused or on the edge of breaking down. Sometimes when you just talk out your problems they seem to solve themselves but only when you can talk with someone who can listen and try their best to comfort and help you. You seem to be that person that comforts and tries their best to help, but everyone goes through things and everyone needs help sometime or another. And when you need that comfort and that concern for your own problems Im sure all of the people you have helped would be glad to help. Also youve got one of the best friends to be there for you and Im sure she will always be there for you. I think that everything does happen for a reason why else would people be directed to certain people for help. You are the one those people need to hear you are the one that will solve the problem no matter how inadequate you may feel, you are the one that will make things better. I promise you that there will always be that person for you that you need to hear because you have been there for all the people that need your help.

    I'm sorry for this really long comment. I hope it makes sense. I'm probably off topic of what everyone else is talking about. but maybe someone needs to hear this and maybe not but if it helps it was worth it.

    It was good to meet you up here and hang out that day, I hope you can come again soon Im sure everyone would be more than happy to see you again. Im sure you need to see them as much as they need to see you.

    Anyways again I am sorry for this long comment and I'm sorry for intruding on this conversation. Have a good day and I hope things work out for you. See ya Later.

    Chris

     
  • At 9:21 PM, Blogger i love you said…

    hey darlin
    so my mom said u can come here we just have to figure out a weekend that works for all of us..man that would be SO exciting cuz i miss you so much!!! holy :( it sucks. well i have sara livin with me now as u know so thats pretty sweet :) we went to a competition for the kids i coach this weekend and it was so fun, we placed 1st in ontario and i will disregard the fact that quebec is crazy-good...haha so anyways we will try to call u soon!! love u :)
    jenn

     
  • At 4:50 PM, Blogger kikkoBEAM said…

    MEEETTTTE jenn and i called you and you MUST HEAR THE MESSAGE
    and you MUSt laugh

    and then you MUSt call us back
    I MISS YOU TO DEATH AND I WANT YOU TO COME SEE ME
    i mean us.
    (i really ment me because i am a a greedy little munchkin)

     
  • At 10:20 AM, Blogger i love you said…

    OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
    u are coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    i am so happy my cheeks are bursting
    love u tons!
    me

     
  • At 12:35 PM, Blogger shamae said…

    oh, you would go to canada

     
  • At 9:58 AM, Blogger kikkoBEAM said…

    maybe you should come too. that would be ridiculously fun.

    you know what else is ridiculous?

    this lackage of posting. well from our good friend mariette of whom we all love and adore.
    (that was a compliment/bribe)

    and how you NEED TO CALL do i need to get you a secretary or something? you need to CALL and you need to COME now because i miss you like, .. um.. like TOO MUCH that i cant even describe it anymore and thats scary.

    COME COME COME call COME COME call call COME COME call call call COME COME COME call COME love me COME call COME

    hehehe i thought id sneak the love me in there to see if you'd fall into my trap

    MWAHAHAHHAHA

    come so we can spoon!! we had a huge spooing party in our room when i went to chicago and it made me miss you alot because i spooned with you before and i liked it alot.

    COME NOW
    CALL NOW
    do it

    im going to use the force to make you pick up the phone near you to make you call

    CAAALLLLLLLL DO IT
    call now
    i need you to come i missyou way too much

    im going crazy i cant even stop talking. but im going to because everyone who reads this will think i am a desperate werido and we dont want that happening.
    loveyou and CALL and COME

     
  • At 6:40 PM, Blogger kikkoBEAM said…

    well i know i was the last one to post here but there are no new posts hence here i am again
    i hope you had fun at PROM
    WOOO HOOo and i know you did and i know that you llooked B-E-A-Utiful because it isnt much of a stretch from what you normally look like
    hahahi

    i just tried on jenn's swmimming cap and dang it feels funny. its constricitng my forhead and it makes me look like im mad all the time
    ahhaha

    well i MISS YOU and you are coming SO SOOON AND AHHHHH
    its going to be wicked awesome fun

    LOVE YOU

     

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